lundi 20 mars 2017
A MON FILS NICOLAS (1)
Mon cher fils, tu avais 18ans quand je t' ai ecrit cette lettre. Aujourdhui, tu en as 50 .
J'ai desire la relire et j'ai choisi ici quelques extraits.
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Septembre 1983
Il y a 18ans de cela, j 'avais prepare avec amour une layette bleue; je l'ai choisie bleue parce que c'est la couleur de Marie, notre maman du ciel, et c'est aussi la couleur de la fidelite.
Le visage d'un petit homme hantait mes reves. Je le desirais beau, fort , intelligent et ressemblant a son pere. En cachette je caressais son petit linge. Comme toutes les meres, je revais beaucoup.
Mon reve fut exauce. J'etais fiere de mon fis. Malheureusement je n'avais que peu de temps pour
me faire aimer. Aussi, malgre l ' hiver, je te promenais dans ta poussette, et je rechauffais tes petons de mes mains.
Tout etait emerveillement a mes yeux -- tes beaux yeux marrons en amandes, ta petite fossette au menton, ton teint dore comme du biscuit, tes cheveux du plus beau marron dore, tes petites jambes fortes et musclees ,tes gazouillis, tes petits sauts dans le ber, tes premiers pas et tes coups de pied
dans la boule.. J'essayais bien maladroitement d'entrer dans ton petit monde. Parfois je reussissais avec des histoires ou des jeux, parfois j'echouais..
Les ans se sont ecoules. L'enfant est devenu adolescent. L'avenir s'annoncait plein de promesses. J'essayais de te faire comprendre le serieux de la vie, et il me semblait qu'il y avait une secrete entente entre nous.
Helas !,, l'argent de poche qu'on te donnait ne te suffisait pas, car la vie etait difficile et j'essayais de te le faire comprendre. Peut etre que tu nous en as voulu d'etre different de tes amis qui etaient plus gates.. Mais je te desirais quelqu'un d'autre. car les enfants gates sont souvent egoistes, ils croient qu'on leur doit tout. Ils meprisent la pauvrete et developpent des vices caches.
Tes etudes furent difficiles car tu voulais t'eclater a tout prix. Tu etais comme ' un cerfvolant
casse la corde ' , comme on le dit ici, et j'avais toutes les peines a te raisonner, et j'etais souvent depassee..
J' attirais ton attention, que dans la vie rien n'etait gratuit. Pour tout, il faut savoir en payer le prix.,
surtout le bonheur , et c'etait le pourquoi de notre severite.
En voyant tes resultats mediocres, nous avions du prendre des mesures de discipline, et
cela ne te plaisait guere. Les annees suivantes ne furent guere meilleurs.
Tu refusais d'ecouter nos conseils et les conseils de ta soeur plus jeune. mais , je pense que
l'orgeuil bete etait plus fort chez toi., ou peut etre qu'il y avait un obstacle que nous ignorions,
et que peut etre tu avais besoin d'un avis que nous etions dans l'incapacite de te donner.
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Je t'invitais a reflechir et agir avant que ta vie ne soit irremediablement gachee , car la
jeunesse est comme une riviere sans retour.. L'eau ne remonte jamais le courant.
Tu vivais dans un reve eveille avec ton sport et tes amis.
Je te parlais alors de gens valables . Qui sont ils ?...
Ce sont ceux bien souvent ceux qui ont connu la pauvrete et en ont tire la meilleure
experience pour grandir et construire leur personalite.
Ceux qui donnent le meilleur d'eux meme en toute circonstnce
Ce sont ceux qui luttent pour un monde meilleur
Ceux qui font de bon choix, prennent de bonnes decisions.
Ceux qui savent "ECOUTER ".
ECOUTER ! C'est cela qui te fut le plus difficile et c'est le plus important, car ainsi l'homme
apprend de la sagesse de ses aines et forme son propre jugement.
ECOUTER ! Savoir ECOUTER !........
Pourtant je ne puis passer sous silence tes belles qualites - une certaine bonte et une
cetaine honnetete - toujours pret a rendre service malgre ta fatigue, ton retour de tes lecons
dans la nuit glacee.. Je m'y devais le silence pour que tu deviennes un homme genereux
choisissant les choses difficiles a faire.
Je t'ai prie de ne pas oublier que tu as ete consacre a Marie, sous sa protection des ta naissance.
Et que ma famille , je l'avais mise sous la speciale protection de Jesus et de Marie..
Tout petit, mon enfant, je t'ai appris a prier, a aimer ton Dieu, aussi de ne jamais le renier
pour une partie de tennis , car ce serait alors un bien pauvre amour.
"N ' oublie pas la parabole des talents. Tu en as recu bien plus que d'autres et tu auras a en rendre
compte. "
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Je te rappelais aussi la place importante que Manine a eu dans ta vie jusqu'a ce jour. Elle t'a
donne le meilleur d'elle meme durant toutes ces annees. Al'age de la retraite et du repos, elle s'est consacree a toi volontairement , ne s'epargant aucune peine pour te voir fort et heureux.
Malade souvent, elle a du composer avec ta turbulence, elle t'a aime sans relache, Le peu d'argent . qu'elle en disposait, elle en reservait un montant pour tes plaisirs specialement, et chaque
apres midi en rentrant de l'ecole, tu etais sur d'avoir ta part de douceur que tes parents ne pouvaient t'offrir.
Bien souvent, apres t'avoir fait de severes remontrances, elle etait la premiere a excuser tes
incartades, boules, chaussures de foot perdues, raquettes de tennis cassees, jusqu'aux
examens de la forme 5 qu'elle a voulu payer.
Manine a desire exaucer dans la mesure du possible tous tes reves d'enfant.
Elle a toujours
choisi ton bonheur, negligeant belles robes et chaussures pour sa personne.
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Cher Nic
Si tu ajoutais tous ces petits bonheurs pendant ces 18 annees, tu verrais alors qu'une vie ne serait jamais assez pour les lui rendre, car nul ne peut rembourser l'amour, les nuits blanches, les attentions d'une grande mere sinon par l'amour lui meme.
Aussi nous ne te demandons rien en echange, mais sois courageux, deviens quelqu'un de responsable
et reussis ta vie.
Nous voulons esperer ton pere et moi que le fils de tant d'amour ne saurait se perdre.
" VOILA CE QUE TU ES, NOUS DIRA DIEU ,
VOILA CE QUE JE VOULAIS QUE TU SOIS.
COMPARE !. "
MAMIE
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dimanche 5 mars 2017
DOGS ' STORIES FOR NOAH AND MAX
3 March 2017
At your request , Noah, so that you may not forget the dogs.
THE DOGS : MR SPOK, RYDER AND CHASER
MR SPOK
Your grand father and I were looking for small dogs. Then one day we read in the daily newspaper about small dogs for sale. Do you imagine, it was far in the south of the island , at Riviere des Anguilles.
When we got there, we asked after the little dogs. A woman led us to an old building covered with iron sheets. Some carpenters were working in a room . Next to it , was a semi dark room,
very damp but clean, with no paint on the walls. An old rug was spread on the floor. There was an old bench against the wall. The tiny puppies were roaming. There was a dog like "Idee Fixe " who was very agressive, and he has to be held continuously in the maid's arms. Another small white dog
was always looking for attention. I realise it must be the father, The mother was tied in another room and was barking non stop.
I looked after the puppy who would show caracter and I chose Spok because he was not afraid,
he was curious and always moving, whereas the others were hiding under the bench and would not come. Then I made a move as if to attack him and he barks at me. This was my dog, as I was
told never to choose a dog that goes hiding. Spok would be a good little guardian.
I gave him the name of Spok, because of his personality and add ' Mr ' to make him more
important.
When I took him in my arms he was trembling a lot. So I spoke gently to him and
reassured him that he was loved and would be well cared for. He would be happy with me.
I patted him until he stopped trembling and gave him little kisses on his head. Spok was a clean puppy, and even now he will never roll himself in the earth like other dogs.
Mr Spok is indeed a beautiful little whitish dog, of no particular breed, with a big light
chocolate patch on his back and his head.
His ears are particular, chocolate also, hanging and very intent at every noise around him. ...
Front , back, left , right. It is a pleasure to watch them. The hair there is as long as the ear itself
and has a particular beauty.
Spok looks like a little fox with his furry tail and pink pointed nose, always chasing some animal.
The poor little lizards and the cameleons are his favourites, and you can see him jumping as high
as the wall trying to catch them, as he utters all sorts of little noises Hmm!.. Hmm!.... Even before having his lunch , he does the gesture of looking for lizards, perhaps thinking that I shall help him
to catch some.
That day, when we reached home, I noticed something strange. Spok hummed the fresh air, as
if he revived. He knew what was waiting for him., he felt himself responsible of something, just like some body who has endorsed a new cloak . He had a task to accomplish and was feeling very
important, . That is the word --- ' important '. From then on he always had this attitude. very
classy.
I placed him in a cartoon box where he could shelter. But soon he was out inspecting his new territory, learning its bounds. Two days after, Jean came home for some work, and there was little Spok barking at him, compelling him to stay at his place.
Mr Spok is a barker. (In Australia, the municipality would surely come, but here in Mauritius, almost every body has two dogs which bark even at night, at the moon, at cats, at the other dogs
or passers bye. We do not mind it. ).
Our neighbours nextdoor have a taste of it. Mr Spok thinks himself responsible of any stranger
that may climb the stairs or knock at the dooor, any one working on the other side of the wall or
any passer bye who stops a bit. So we have to put him in the back yard when we have visitors,
otherwise he will excite Ryder and Chaser
Mr Spok is no big eater like Ryder or Chaser. He eats like a cat, delicately, choosing the little peaces of meat, taking his time.
But little as he is , he knows how to make himself respected.
No dog dares to come near him. The greedy Ryder waits with patience until he has enough
to come and finish his plate.
Something which make me laugh -----. When I throw outside pieces of bread, Ryder would rush
and have two peaces nearby him. Spok eats only buttered bread, but if he has a peace of bread,
he will not touch it, but will stay in front of it. Ryder has to learn the lesson. He will stay in front
of it as long as it pleases him .
When Ryder and Chaser came, Spok was quite indifferent. But the little puppies were looking
for affection . They succeeded with their love tricks. --- smelling him, licking his ears,
kissing him near the mouth, brushing their fur against him., and rolling on the back showing
their tender belly. Soon he allowed them to bite him and the game started.
Spok likes to lie in the narrow place on the doorstep. Now Ryder wishes this place. So, he
makes all sorts of move, wags his tail, brush him with his big body, makes all sorts of noises ,
but of no avail. Mr Spok plays the dead. He won't move and Ryder learns his lesson.
His sleeping bed has suffered terrible damages from the little munching beasts. The upper layer
has gone. Yet Spok friendly still allows them to sleep each in turn.
Oh Yeh ! .. Mr Spok is the leader of the dogs.
RYDER AND CHASER
One day on facebook, Rex read that some one was willing to give little puppies found in an abandoned yard near her working place. After a phone call, she came at night fall bringing them
for a choice. I looked for the leader and noticed that Ryder was the one , he was smart
and intelligent . Chaser was my second choice for his future beauty. They also were
ordinary dogs of no breed.
The next day when I looked at them in sunlight , they were in a terrible state --- Full of scales,
their hair had fallen in places, little beasts were roaming on them and they were scratching non
stop. Your grandfather was horrified, and wished me to leave them at the MSPCA for disposal.
But I refused. They were my responsibility and I had to give them a chance. So I placed them in
a cartoon box and brought them to the vet for medication.
Three months were not enough to heal them. Twice per day , I have to put an antiseptic cream
on their bodies and give them their medicine. Special food was given to them with vitamins.
They were like babies who need special care and my day was full with them. I was eager to see
them get well, because I knew you wanted so much to play with them on your next visit to us.
Twice per week, I gave them tinned sardines for their hair and now you can see how shiny it is.
Ryder is of a beautiful black with a bit of white and fire colour. Chaser is very beautiful
with all the black miggling with the fire colour of his hair.
Ryder is the leader, all round the day he challenges Mr Spok , and sometimes I fear that
something bad occurs, because their little growls grow biger and bigger, and one may hurt the
other, but then they usually stop.
Chaser likes his peace and comfort . He will retire in shady places under my curry leaves.,
or in the thick plant near the road. Once, I called him several times, he did not come out.
I went in the street, less he might have escaped. Not after fifteen minutes did he come out as if
it was nothing the hurry. Indeed he is full of tricks. Usually he did them behind our back -
eating shoes, clothes, scratching the earth. Yet he looks the more innocent.
When you came to Mauritus they were completely healed and ready to be loved by you.
Indeed, I was very anxious when I saw Max and you , all round the day taking them, patting
them a long time. If they had diarrhea or something else ?.... But they let themselves be your
pets ., and were ok. --- And there were days of complete madness. You did not know what new games to invent . They occupied you a lot and your father and mother could breathe, they did
not have to look after your whereabouts.
You remember the kayak, and you were like Robinson Crusoe on his desert island. Our
floorbrush became the support for our doormat. You were navigators with the dogs there in
always struggling to get out. There was such a noise : Fruch ! Bang ! Flap ! ... The dogs
were not feeling at ease in this restricted place. So you were always starting again.
Now my yard was no longer what it was , with all the rocks, the pebbles , the branches
you placed here and there. I think that you wished to make the dogs acting as on tv , make
them jump or do something quite new. These games occupied you a lot. , but Francois the gardener, had an additional job to his list. However he did not complaint and understood you.
He just moved his headand smiled.
Ryder and Spok act like accomplices. They always run side by side, of the same pace, like
soldiers. Perhaps Ryder wishes to imitate Spok or prove to him that he shares all his
actions. But Ryder does not bark like Spok . He is more calm and seems to look for my
reaction.
Last time, a friend of mine came with two handy men to take away a huge bird cage.
So I chained Spok to a bench. Chaser disappeared, where ?.... Ryder accompanied me
step by step, smelling the visiters at every pace but does not try to bite them, he was not
aggressive. He dit not leave my side all the time it took, and accompanied me to the gate.
I was very impressed by his attitude.
The food of Ryder !... When he is hungry, he is the only one who expresses his feelings.
He yawns and yawns , uttering cries like ' Yown ! ' Yown ! ' ... brushes his body against the
wire. I make as if I do not understand. So He grows more impatient , he now starts to scratch
the wire , wishing to draw my attention and starts to bark and move his big bum against the
other dogs, and seems to say :
" What is the matter with you ? Are you not hungry ? Please move !. " The other dogs were
mute and just stay still..
Ryder has a very good appetite, he is greedy,. Perhaps he will be bigger. He always finishes his plate before the others , while having his eyes on the other plates. But Ryder has learned his lessons. He no longer left his plate to go to other plates, Chaser and Mr Spok wont allow him. So,
He waited impatiently for Mr Spok to go to pee. It is the sign for him, to go and finish his plate.
In the afternoon, I let them free to go in the front yard and they are so happy for their next adventure. First they go near the gate and wait for passers bye and other dogs., then look for something to play with and run after, or two dogs may chose a third one to start their little bites,
until he could no longer bear it. .
Now the dogs have become quite big, and you will not be able to lift them. They are
also always on the go to do something. I love my dogs . They are very affectionate and
are good guardians. Believe me, they will not forget you, just as you will not forget them.
I just hope that I leaves you happy , with a smile.
Grandmother Arlette.
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At your request , Noah, so that you may not forget the dogs.
THE DOGS : MR SPOK, RYDER AND CHASER
MR SPOK
Your grand father and I were looking for small dogs. Then one day we read in the daily newspaper about small dogs for sale. Do you imagine, it was far in the south of the island , at Riviere des Anguilles.
When we got there, we asked after the little dogs. A woman led us to an old building covered with iron sheets. Some carpenters were working in a room . Next to it , was a semi dark room,
very damp but clean, with no paint on the walls. An old rug was spread on the floor. There was an old bench against the wall. The tiny puppies were roaming. There was a dog like "Idee Fixe " who was very agressive, and he has to be held continuously in the maid's arms. Another small white dog
was always looking for attention. I realise it must be the father, The mother was tied in another room and was barking non stop.
I looked after the puppy who would show caracter and I chose Spok because he was not afraid,
he was curious and always moving, whereas the others were hiding under the bench and would not come. Then I made a move as if to attack him and he barks at me. This was my dog, as I was
told never to choose a dog that goes hiding. Spok would be a good little guardian.
I gave him the name of Spok, because of his personality and add ' Mr ' to make him more
important.
When I took him in my arms he was trembling a lot. So I spoke gently to him and
reassured him that he was loved and would be well cared for. He would be happy with me.
I patted him until he stopped trembling and gave him little kisses on his head. Spok was a clean puppy, and even now he will never roll himself in the earth like other dogs.
Mr Spok is indeed a beautiful little whitish dog, of no particular breed, with a big light
chocolate patch on his back and his head.
His ears are particular, chocolate also, hanging and very intent at every noise around him. ...
Front , back, left , right. It is a pleasure to watch them. The hair there is as long as the ear itself
and has a particular beauty.
Spok looks like a little fox with his furry tail and pink pointed nose, always chasing some animal.
The poor little lizards and the cameleons are his favourites, and you can see him jumping as high
as the wall trying to catch them, as he utters all sorts of little noises Hmm!.. Hmm!.... Even before having his lunch , he does the gesture of looking for lizards, perhaps thinking that I shall help him
to catch some.
That day, when we reached home, I noticed something strange. Spok hummed the fresh air, as
if he revived. He knew what was waiting for him., he felt himself responsible of something, just like some body who has endorsed a new cloak . He had a task to accomplish and was feeling very
important, . That is the word --- ' important '. From then on he always had this attitude. very
classy.
I placed him in a cartoon box where he could shelter. But soon he was out inspecting his new territory, learning its bounds. Two days after, Jean came home for some work, and there was little Spok barking at him, compelling him to stay at his place.
Mr Spok is a barker. (In Australia, the municipality would surely come, but here in Mauritius, almost every body has two dogs which bark even at night, at the moon, at cats, at the other dogs
or passers bye. We do not mind it. ).
Our neighbours nextdoor have a taste of it. Mr Spok thinks himself responsible of any stranger
that may climb the stairs or knock at the dooor, any one working on the other side of the wall or
any passer bye who stops a bit. So we have to put him in the back yard when we have visitors,
otherwise he will excite Ryder and Chaser
Mr Spok is no big eater like Ryder or Chaser. He eats like a cat, delicately, choosing the little peaces of meat, taking his time.
But little as he is , he knows how to make himself respected.
No dog dares to come near him. The greedy Ryder waits with patience until he has enough
to come and finish his plate.
Something which make me laugh -----. When I throw outside pieces of bread, Ryder would rush
and have two peaces nearby him. Spok eats only buttered bread, but if he has a peace of bread,
he will not touch it, but will stay in front of it. Ryder has to learn the lesson. He will stay in front
of it as long as it pleases him .
When Ryder and Chaser came, Spok was quite indifferent. But the little puppies were looking
for affection . They succeeded with their love tricks. --- smelling him, licking his ears,
kissing him near the mouth, brushing their fur against him., and rolling on the back showing
their tender belly. Soon he allowed them to bite him and the game started.
Spok likes to lie in the narrow place on the doorstep. Now Ryder wishes this place. So, he
makes all sorts of move, wags his tail, brush him with his big body, makes all sorts of noises ,
but of no avail. Mr Spok plays the dead. He won't move and Ryder learns his lesson.
His sleeping bed has suffered terrible damages from the little munching beasts. The upper layer
has gone. Yet Spok friendly still allows them to sleep each in turn.
Oh Yeh ! .. Mr Spok is the leader of the dogs.
RYDER AND CHASER
One day on facebook, Rex read that some one was willing to give little puppies found in an abandoned yard near her working place. After a phone call, she came at night fall bringing them
for a choice. I looked for the leader and noticed that Ryder was the one , he was smart
and intelligent . Chaser was my second choice for his future beauty. They also were
ordinary dogs of no breed.
The next day when I looked at them in sunlight , they were in a terrible state --- Full of scales,
their hair had fallen in places, little beasts were roaming on them and they were scratching non
stop. Your grandfather was horrified, and wished me to leave them at the MSPCA for disposal.
But I refused. They were my responsibility and I had to give them a chance. So I placed them in
a cartoon box and brought them to the vet for medication.
Three months were not enough to heal them. Twice per day , I have to put an antiseptic cream
on their bodies and give them their medicine. Special food was given to them with vitamins.
They were like babies who need special care and my day was full with them. I was eager to see
them get well, because I knew you wanted so much to play with them on your next visit to us.
Twice per week, I gave them tinned sardines for their hair and now you can see how shiny it is.
Ryder is of a beautiful black with a bit of white and fire colour. Chaser is very beautiful
with all the black miggling with the fire colour of his hair.
Ryder is the leader, all round the day he challenges Mr Spok , and sometimes I fear that
something bad occurs, because their little growls grow biger and bigger, and one may hurt the
other, but then they usually stop.
Chaser likes his peace and comfort . He will retire in shady places under my curry leaves.,
or in the thick plant near the road. Once, I called him several times, he did not come out.
I went in the street, less he might have escaped. Not after fifteen minutes did he come out as if
it was nothing the hurry. Indeed he is full of tricks. Usually he did them behind our back -
eating shoes, clothes, scratching the earth. Yet he looks the more innocent.
When you came to Mauritus they were completely healed and ready to be loved by you.
Indeed, I was very anxious when I saw Max and you , all round the day taking them, patting
them a long time. If they had diarrhea or something else ?.... But they let themselves be your
pets ., and were ok. --- And there were days of complete madness. You did not know what new games to invent . They occupied you a lot and your father and mother could breathe, they did
not have to look after your whereabouts.
You remember the kayak, and you were like Robinson Crusoe on his desert island. Our
floorbrush became the support for our doormat. You were navigators with the dogs there in
always struggling to get out. There was such a noise : Fruch ! Bang ! Flap ! ... The dogs
were not feeling at ease in this restricted place. So you were always starting again.
Now my yard was no longer what it was , with all the rocks, the pebbles , the branches
you placed here and there. I think that you wished to make the dogs acting as on tv , make
them jump or do something quite new. These games occupied you a lot. , but Francois the gardener, had an additional job to his list. However he did not complaint and understood you.
He just moved his headand smiled.
Ryder and Spok act like accomplices. They always run side by side, of the same pace, like
soldiers. Perhaps Ryder wishes to imitate Spok or prove to him that he shares all his
actions. But Ryder does not bark like Spok . He is more calm and seems to look for my
reaction.
Last time, a friend of mine came with two handy men to take away a huge bird cage.
So I chained Spok to a bench. Chaser disappeared, where ?.... Ryder accompanied me
step by step, smelling the visiters at every pace but does not try to bite them, he was not
aggressive. He dit not leave my side all the time it took, and accompanied me to the gate.
I was very impressed by his attitude.
The food of Ryder !... When he is hungry, he is the only one who expresses his feelings.
He yawns and yawns , uttering cries like ' Yown ! ' Yown ! ' ... brushes his body against the
wire. I make as if I do not understand. So He grows more impatient , he now starts to scratch
the wire , wishing to draw my attention and starts to bark and move his big bum against the
other dogs, and seems to say :
" What is the matter with you ? Are you not hungry ? Please move !. " The other dogs were
mute and just stay still..
Ryder has a very good appetite, he is greedy,. Perhaps he will be bigger. He always finishes his plate before the others , while having his eyes on the other plates. But Ryder has learned his lessons. He no longer left his plate to go to other plates, Chaser and Mr Spok wont allow him. So,
He waited impatiently for Mr Spok to go to pee. It is the sign for him, to go and finish his plate.
In the afternoon, I let them free to go in the front yard and they are so happy for their next adventure. First they go near the gate and wait for passers bye and other dogs., then look for something to play with and run after, or two dogs may chose a third one to start their little bites,
until he could no longer bear it. .
Now the dogs have become quite big, and you will not be able to lift them. They are
also always on the go to do something. I love my dogs . They are very affectionate and
are good guardians. Believe me, they will not forget you, just as you will not forget them.
I just hope that I leaves you happy , with a smile.
Grandmother Arlette.
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jeudi 2 mars 2017
TO LITTLE NOAH
LETTER FROM NOAH
Dear Arlelerte
I have been reading your wonderful card. I shall pray every night and every day for my family and friends.
I love this card that you gave me and I'll keep it forever. I would like another card about life, and how to make it to heaven.
This year I hope you and Rex come to Australia and have fun time.
I am really sad that I left Mauritius and I really miss you. I have been doing what your card says and it has really helped me. I believe in Jesus. He is in my heart and always be.
I would like you to write about the dogs so I don't miss them
From Noah
I BELIEVE IN JESUS.
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22february 2017
Dear Noah
Your letter gives me so much pleasure and touches me.
Thank Jesus and your parents for your wonderful holidays in
Mauritius. Not everybody can afford them. It is a gift,
a treasure for your childhood , beautiful memories that may help you
later in life..
But do not speak too much about them, do not brag, as sometime
it may be a cause of sadness , frustration for those who are unable to enjoy same.
YOUR LIFE
Now, it is time to go back to the normal life of a student , that is learning, acquiring knowledge, have control of yourself, of your character, have discipline, be responsible, looking for what you must change for the best, in your attitude towards those around you ,
at school and at home...
Life is not difficult to live. If you love it and make a good use of it.,
life will reward you.
You have only to put your heart in what you do and trust in yourself:
These are your daily duties:
Listen to and obey your parents, be helpful.
Avoid quarrels with your brothers and friends at school
Listen to and respect your teachers at school,.
Do your homework and learn your lessons well.
Do not lie or cheat.
Learn to share, to do charity.
Learn to love., make peace.
This time of your life is very precious. Do not waste it .
It will be difficult for you to catch up later. . .
There is a time for every thing : - -- to play, to sleep, to learn., to eat.
Accept so , make the most of it.
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" TO DAY IS THE TIME " .
.Do not say : "I' ll have time to morrow"
You do not know what the next day will be.
MAKE IT A RULE IN YOUR LIFE TO DO WHAT EVER YOU CAN " TO DAY "
This will be your success story.
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Also always OBSERVE - LISTEN - THINK -
MAKE YOUR OWN JUDGEMENT
THINK WELL BEFORE SPEAKING
SPEAK WITH POISE - do not get excited.
GO TO THE POINT
ACT ACCORDINGLY
Your education, your knowledge, the values ----- you will acquire ,
they will be yours and will always be yours. They will be your reward for all your struggles.
They will make you a man who shall be able to fulfill a role in society, be somebody
who can be trusted with greater responsibilities.
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CAST AWAY YOUR FEARS.
DO NOT WORRY ABOUT LATER.
BE POSITIVE
BE TRUE
DO NOT BE SOMEBODY EASILY INFLUENCED
ALWAYS WEIGH THE PROS AND CON
DO NOT BE AFRAID TO GIVE YOUR OPINION IF YOU THINK YOU ARE RIGHT
HOLD TO YOUR CHRISTIAN VALUES
BE WISE TO ACCEPT TO BE REPRIMANDED WHEN YOU ARE WRONG,
ACCEPT TO LOSE AT TIMES
ACCEPT THE ADVICE OF THOSE WHO KNOW BETTER THAN YOU
LEARN FROM THEIR KNOWLEDGE,
NEVER STOP LEARNING IF YOU CAN AFFORD IT
ALWAYS BE AWARE OF WHAT IS GOING AROUND YOU, IN YOUR COUNTRY,
IN THE WORLD
DON' 'T BE STUBBORN
LOOK FOR WISDOM
ALLOW THE GOOD TO STAY IN YOUR HEART
DO NOT CHEAT, DO NOT LIE
REJECT ALL THAT ARE NOT CLEAR AND CAUSE TROUBLE TO YOUR SOUL
THEY ARE NOT GOOD.
STAY AWAY FROM FRIENDS, PEOPLE WHO WANT TO DESTROY YOU, TO BEHAVE
OTHERWISE.
AVOID THE VIOLENT ONES,
THOSE WHO TAKE DRUGS, INDULGE IN ALCOHOL , GAMBLING, DISCO AND OTHER ADDICTIVE PLEASURES,
THOSE WHO DO NOT RESPECT WOMEN, OLD PEOPLE
THOSE WHO TAKE ADVANTAGE OF OTHERS
THOSE WHO THROW AWAY MONEY AND BRAG THEMSELVES.
THOSE WHO DO NOT RESPECT THEIR BODY ( DO NOT FORGET THAT THAT YOU ARE A SON OF GOD, THE TEMPLE OF THE HOLY TRINITY)
EVERY THING THAT YOU MUST HIDE TO DO , BE SURE, IS NOT GOOD.
HAVE AN AVERSION FOR IT, BECAUSE YOU ARE A SON OF LIGHT.
YOU MUST DWELL IN THE LIGHT OF GOD.
THE CONTRARY WILL HURT YOUR PARENTS AND TEACHERS ,
PREVENT YOU FROM HAVING A STABLE LIFE., HAVING PEACE OF MIND.
LIKE JUSTICE AND BRING PEACE AROUND YOU.
AS THE ELDEST YOU MUST GIVE GOOD EXAMPLE TO MAX AND ZAC
KEEP ALWAYS THE HONOUR OF YOUR NAME AS YOU HAVE TO HAND IT OVER
ONE DAY TO YOUR CHILDREN AND DESCENDANTS..
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YOUR QUESTIONS
You surely are asking yourself many questions. You are curious about life and It is good and quite normal . Your parents, your nono and nona , your teachers are there to give you answers, but
it is also good for you to think about life and find yourself your answers. Avoid asking your friends, because they are like you, they are learning, they do not have the maturity and wisdom required and they can twist realities and advise you wrongly. So be careful as to whom
you ask your questions.
LIBERTY
God has granted you liberty - liberty to love him, to choose him, to obey him,
liberty to make good use of your intelligence , and of your will, do good actions .
Your parents are your guides , so listen to their advice.
Do not be a rebel who is a cause of pain to them.
Never make your father or your mother weep. In your
parents Jesus sees his mother crying and he will be angry.
Listen to what they have to say , then quietly speak your thoughts, or wait for a better moment.. Be wise to accept
when they punish you. This will help you to be a better
boy.
They care for you, protect you; they wish you to have a good life, to be able one day to stand on your feet and fight your own battles and be victorious.
The Holy Spirit will help you if you ask Him., and trust Him.
So always listen to the little voice in you.
Your parents give you that is most precious ---"LOVE", so that one day you may be able to love and give love .
So many do not know how to love and are unhappy, and make others unhappy around them.
So watch your heart.
Be wise.
NONO AND NONA
Now, your nono and nona , have worked hard, made sacrifices. They have been emigrants compelled to leave their countries because of lack of work. Life was very difficult in those days.
They also, have many things to teach you.
They love you so much . Learn from their experience. They shall not always be there.
NONA FRANCA
Nona Franca is more than 90 years of age.
So what do you think of this proposal ?...
Ask Nona Franca about her life in those days.
She has such a beautiful story to tell you..
She told me how she used to sew all the clothes of the family ,
the shirts and trousers of the men with her hands , because there were no sewing machine at that time..
Do you imagine it ? ....
Take notes and rewrite every thing as a text , so that your
father and mother, Max and Zac, even the next generation may have the pleasure to read it and know who they were . Ask the names of the people, , the village they came from, their life at that time, during the war, and their journey. to Australia.
You 'll love it, Noah, and she will be so happy to see her little son interested. Do not be shy to ask questions. Ask and on my next visit I shall help you
Jossie can bring you there.
OUR PARENTS
As for me, my father and mother were orphans at a very young age, and I write on them
in another text.
Do you know that I got my first doll at 10 years old only after obtaining the primary
scholarship and the medal of Superiority in french in ' Alliance Francaise ' exams.
Life was not easy. My mother was a primary school teacher and my father was a humble
cemetery keeper.. I had three brothers and two sisters. The end of months were difficult.
At times I heard my mother crying because she could hardly make the ends meet.
But my mother very proud , never asked for help from his brothers and sisters who
were in a better situation. We lived our life very simply and accepted it. We never envied the
others. We had our day at the seaside every holiday, the visits we did to each other and our
family walks under moonlight.
There were no drug addicts or tramps to attack us at that
time. Life was beautiful.
At that time, we knew each other, and used to say hello to our neighbours . We always
exchange some polite words.
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Your grand father Claude, Rex did not have a father, to guide him. His mother had to struggle
a lot in order to give her two children a proper life.
But he made his life a success. We had four
children and you knew the rest.
START TO WRITE
I know you like to write. So start to write, write about things you like., your holidays, the people
you met, the places you went, that which is important to you.
Write, write, .... START TO WRITE -- Take your pleasure in it. Have your opinion on things,
on events, on people ,even if you are young. Take your time, work your text, make it something beautiful. Be proud of it.
As you grow, things will be easier and you may see things otherwise. It does not matter.
The spirit of your words will stay
Do not hesitate. WRITE ....
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MOST IMPORTANT READ..., READ A LOT.
CHOOSE YOUR BOOKS, YOUR SUBJECT
Ask Mamma to help you, she will be so glad.
YOU WILL LEARN FROM OTHERS LIVES AND EXPERIENCE.
YOU BROADEN YOUR INTELLIGENCE , YOUR JUDGEMENT, YOUR WAY OF
THINKING.
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RESPECT YOUR ENVIRONMENT
Our planet is so beautiful with the blue sea, the trees, the birds, the flowers , so many animals.
So do your humble part, take care of it in your capacity. Add your little stone to protect it.
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Now, Noah you are a strong and an intelligent boy. You are a good soccer player.
The good and the bad will always be on your path, because of the frailty of human nature.
The challenges of life, be certain, you will have to live them. But you are aware of them and
you are surrounded by people who love you. So trust in you and you will succeed.
Look forward, Noah.
I like this picture
As requested by you, I am sending you cards with beautiful words, which you can share with Nona Franca, Nono and Nona , your parents, Max and Zac.
On the verso of every card that you give , write "' I LOVE YOU, NOAH" .
IN THE NAME OF JESUS I BLESS YOU ,
I BLESS YOUR WORK, YOUR SOCCER
AND EVERY THING GOOD YOU LOVE AND DESIRE.
MAY GOD REST UPON YOU,
MAY HIS FACE SHINE UPON YOU AND ALL YOUR FAMILY
MAY HE GIVE YOU HIS PEACE AND JOY.
KISSES
GRANDMOTHER ARLETTE.
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